These days, you will find a man who has no job, no savings but has proposed, picked a date and is ready to say I do. Beauty specialist Fola Shade questions societal norms.

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I find this article written by beauty Specialist Folashade of Shade Crown very interesting. Her direct approach to the issue without trying to sugar coat anything is superb yet it is not overly rude.  A must read for men and women!!!!

The other day, I talked about women being financially independent and having a life before saying I do. Today I will focus on men, especially the ones in this generation.

Few months ago, I got a message from someone asking for donations towards his wedding, I shook my head in disgust and deleted the message! If you're already asking for donations at this stage, I can only hope the entire marriage won't be about begging ppl to feed you and your wife!

These days, you will find a man who has no job, no savings but has proposed, picked a date and is ready to say I do, with a very supportive partner who's obviously working, financially independent and ready to bear the burden. Such men have no dignity! How do they intend to take care of the family?? And you wonder why their family and even the wife are in full support?!

These lazy men end up getting comfortable to the extent of even getting their wives pregnant, without a job, no income whatsoever. Of course their virtuous wife ends up supporting them and they stay feeling like kings! Jobless but they have it all....thanks to madam.

This generation is full of shameless lazy men who are ready to be fed by their girlfriends, wives, sugar mummies etc and the blame goes to the virtuous woman in their life, and in most cases these are desperate ladies encouraging these lazy men by providing all they need.

Take a closer look at such ladies, they end up looking older than these men because they literally do everything while the man sits on his behind looking fresher and younger.

One would even expect such lazy men to hold their partner in high esteem, but never! Because like Oliver twist, they want more and if Madam isn't living up to expectations, not doing all they want and much more, the emotional, physical abuse begins! The sad part is this, don't ever feel that because you are feeding and taking care of a man, he will be loyal to you! Never, it always backfires, and when you eventually wake up and decide not to be a fool anymore, he would move on to the next mugu!

Yes there are a few hard working men out there, kudos to them, but the truth is there are more lazy shameless men in this generation!

" But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel."

"If a man does not choose to work, neither shall he eat."

AND IT IS NOT AN ATTACK AGAINST MEN! FEW DAYS AGO, SHE CAME FOR WOMEN AS WELL. WE NEED MORE HONESTY IN THIS GENERATION.

A married friend once asked me why are you not married...lol..at the end of the conversation, she asked me to loan her 3k. Please note that I am not trying to ridicule anybody but that is why I am not married.

I am working hard to ensure when He does not have to give me, I will not be rendered useless and resort to borrowing.  I want to go in financially, mentally and all the other "ly" capable. Lest I become a burden to someone else!!!

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