The 21st century woman has to be smart! I mean Very very smart!

Written by Fola Shade (@shadecrown)

The 21st century woman has to be smart! I mean Very very smart! And this is for the hard working women with their own source (s) of income - not those who have no jobs / no source of income. It's time to start saving, buying lands, houses etc. It's time to invest and stop believing in the struggling and suffering in marriage / relationship mentality.

I just read another story about how this woman suffered with her husband, she literally supported him and made him who he is today and of course, he got rich dumped her and married another woman.

So many women walk away from failed marriages with nothing, after investing their all. Some are even in marriages where the husband has bought properties only in his name and they are there with absolutely nothing!

The reality is anything can happen! As much as no one wishes anybody anything evil, we must all be prepared for the good days and the bad days!

Don't let anyone fool you by telling you to struggle with anybody. Those who are not struggling don't have two heads- like, I said this is for ladies who are working!! So if you are working and taking care of yourself, you don't need to add another burden to your life by being in a "situation-ship" where you spend all your savings on the other person and you have nothing left - but you are there because you believe the situation will get better. Hmmmm whoever wants to struggle should struggle on their own, Life is to be enjoyed not to be endured.

Please, think about the future, think about your kids whether you have them now or not. Invest !!!!!!

Two grown adults in a marriage or a serious relationship should both bring something to the table. Period! If someone isn't capable of doing that, then you're better off being alone.

It's in this century that we have women paying school fees, bills, house rent etc taking care of responsibilities that should be handled by the man.

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Stop investing in dead relationships!!!