A friend of Nollywood actress Mercy Aigbe has tendered her apology to her friend publicly for being one of the reasons she stayed with her abusive husband for so long. In a public apology to the actress to declare her support, she wrote;
Hmmmmmmmm. @mercyaigbe_ . I looked and looked and still looking at this picture and my heart is broken. Guilt is eating me up. I didn't know it will end like this, I would have listened and supported you more. Instead I shut you down and won't have you complain about the maltreatment all the time.
I remembered vividly your birthday at the time BIsi Komolafe died, he walked in with his friends and demanded you make pounded yam for all of them on your own very day. That was the time I called you to wish you a happy Birthday. I remembered you said "Sister Lanre tun ti bęrę were ę o".
I remembered begging and begging you to pound the yam and give peace a chance on your birthday. Only him to finish the pounded yam and asking for something else again. You called me back to say he can do his worse that you won't give in.
I could recollect begging you again to just do whatever he wanted since he wouldn't take "no" for answer. Aanuoluwapo, I forgot wedlock is not padlock, that I should have allowed you to leave him when all your bones were still intact.
I am very sorry gf. Even when he performed his madness in 2013, though you denied in public , you still told me the truth and I told you to stay since he has apologised and promised never to do such again. I can't just tell you to leave your husband's house when I am in mine. I refused to listen to your inner cry. I thought you could handle it. I am so sorry dear. I didn't know it was this bad.
I stand with you as you go through this phase but I need you to know that it shall pass. You are a very hard working lady, a good mother and wife. The Lord will see you through this and mend your spirit, soul and body. My very own omo-na-bouncing , please get well soon.
You have my support on any decision you make Now. I promise to listen and support more. God will surely vindicate you. I am so sorry oko mi.
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