The wife of Nigerian footballer Bronw Ideye has responded to allegations that her husband had fathered two children with a ukraine based lover and abandoned them. Damaka Ideye spoke to Thenet.ng about the whole drama.
First of all, I am irritated by the fact that she had to respond. That is not your duty madam, let your husband do it afterall there is no smoke without fire? Even if the woman is lying, why did she pick him? Let your husband do the explaining.
The issue of society blaming women when their husband errs is tiring. This is why many women feel the need to validate themselves or paint a picture of a perfect relationship or home for fear of tongues wagging. Either ways madam Damaka, people will talk now.
Now read all the had to say;
"Dear All, my attention was drawn to this account on IG,which has for the last few weeks been used for the single purpose of discrediting me and my family. The acct claims my husband has 2 children he fathered in Kiev,Ukraine.
‘It claims the boy is 3 years old and alleges ‘my husband hasn’t come to see him’ hence, the campaign.Then goes on to claim they have a girl together who just turned 1 on Dec 20th,2015, which apparently also, he’s yet to ‘see’ Hmmmm.’
‘If there is a legitimate claim,am sure this beautiful, educated, social media savvy person,would have long taken a legal approach…I share this because perhaps they will also attempt to contact some of our good friends to further whatever agenda they have, also, because I’ve spent a good part of my adult life so far,advocating for people’s rights and educating my peers, and younger people to never stay SILENT in the face of any form of bullying or harassment and therefore will not shy away from doing same for myself.’
‘There are blessings, there are also curses lingering to weave their way in, if you allow it. The hate is real people(even from those you don’t know)but so is the LOVE and that is where I choose to focus. My only prayer and wish for he/she/they is that, they “find some peace of mind” as we all prepare to usher in a wonderful new year in a few days.’
Photo of the kids he allegedly fathered with the Ukranian woman below;
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