Toke Makinwa marital woes is like psalm 23. Most of us know it. We have all the detailed in our heads. The media personality whose marriiage to Maje Ayida crashed after he was exposed for cheating on her and fathering a child with a long time lover Anita Solomon.
Toke filed for divorce recently and it seems she is now ready to talk about her past. Speaking to Glam Africa about her failed marriage, the radio presenter turned vlogger said;
“Matters of the heart are tough, incredibly tough. Cheating is bad; it is a cancer that eats you up; it destroys everything.
“You see a confident woman become a shadow of herself when she has been cheated on. It is one of the most painful things, ever and though some people make it work, it definitely cannot be the same again. It is like a broken mirror, the cracks will always be there but in time, the scar can become beautiful and a place only of reference, not a destination.
“People can come back from it. If both parties are willing and if the cheat understands what his or her actions cost their partner. And of course, with the grace of God, watching another person suffer for the choice you selfishly made is so heart breaking – that is what cheating does.
“People grow up, people change and everyone deserves a second chance as we ask God for forgiveness daily, but it may not be with each other.
“Sometimes the brokenness is irreparable and you can forgive someone without being in their lives.”
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