Until you pass that test, you'll keep repeating that class. Toke Makinwa,

There is absolutely no doubt in my mind that pain can be a huge source of wisdom. Toke who has been through alot has a lot to say when it comes to life realities. What she wrote below;

Just what I was talking about the other day, until you pass that test, you'll keep repeating that class. It'll keep happening until you learn. Things happen not to break us but to teach us more about ourselves. Are you stuck being bitter about that experience? You can do better. 

Ask God to reveal the lessons in the mess, pray for clarity and when it comes, own up to it. Forgive yourself first and then forgive those who hurt you. That person you're letting live rent free in your head can very well repent, make peace with God and enter heaven while you stay mad and lose focus.

God is preparing you for a glorious end but you have to stay ready. Where purpose is unknown, abuse is inevitable. "You will walk thru fire but because God is in there with you, it'll refine you, shine you, make you golden and people around you will be amazed at how easy you made it look. (Long essay yeah, I'm in the spirit tonight) 💕💕💕💕