If you do not know the full details of Karrine Steffans, i actually dont know where to start from. You see, she is this video vixen who has slept with a large number of rappers and celebrities and she put them on blast in her book "Confessions of a video vixen" where she described their "tools" and rated them on the sexual ability.
From Jayz, Usher, Bow wow, to Jarule RayJ, Snoop, the list was endless. Karrine has since cooled it down but she recently got into the media eye again after she blasted Nigerian actor and rapper Rotimi for abandoning her after she miscarried their baby
Also interesting is the fact that Karrine has always maintained a cringe worthy relationship with rapper Lil Wayne. She once told VladTV that any man she is going to date has to understand that he would always play second fiddle to the rapper. Well, she is dancing to a new tune as she is putting him on blast over his sex tape that allegedly leaked.
This is what she had to say about her relationship with Wayne;
There were never fireworks and he never bought me anything or paid for anything of mine. He's not a god, he's a man, and not every man is a sexual assassin. Every man is not rich. Every man is not handsome. Every man is not brilliant. But every man is worthy of love, in some form, from somebody.
When people ask, "If the sex wasn't good, why did you stay?" it makes me sad to know that his ability to give and receive love never entered their minds. As if he's not a person worthy of love and devotion based on his spirit and not his sex. Post-slavery residue.
This is why the sexual education of women frightens insecure men so much. Men can gain all the knowledge that comes with sexual experience but women better not, or they're whores. Men want to be able to choose you but they want you to settle, never knowing your options. Another point to be made is the bravado rappers promote but rarely live up to.
They're not all killers with tons of money and big dicks. Many of them are scared little boys, struggling to hold on to an image developed by a record label. Many are stuck in unfair contracts and are close to broke. And guess what, their sex is no better than Tyrone from around the corner. They are not gods. But back to love and the black man.
They are not walking penises or bank accounts. They are beautiful, necessary people who are worthy of love. This man, in particular, saved my life. Anyone who has read my books knows that. My love for that man is based on that, and sexual satisfaction is insignificant in such a case. I think this sex tape and the reactions to it make for a powerful thesis. Your rapping demigod isn't a Mandingo. What will you believe in, now? And will you slut shame him? Tuh!
Also, we live in a patriarchal society that shames women for their sexual prowess and their lack thereof, and hardly anyone is outraged for women. But, as soon as a woman isn't bowing down to the all-mighty penis, and is unsatisfied with one, all hell breaks loose. How dare you not like a man's sex, woman! Every man is not a stallion and a sexually educated woman, who has done her sexual due diligence can easily discern what kind of penis is or isn't perfect for her. She continued/
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