Prolific comedian Ali Baba shed light on some though provoking topic in our modern day society over an incident that occurred when a man won something at an event organised by Arik air and to the shock of the guest, the looser dragged the flag from the hands of the winner and tore it apart ( you can find that photo below). ..
Every time, when I see things like this happen, I try to see beyond the incident itself. Many think it's enough excuse to begin to abuse the guy who grabbed the flag.
I think different. In my own crazy way of seeing things, I see the consequences of being uneducated, poor upbringing, lowtolerance level, absence of self confidence, blaming others for your inadequacies, failure to plan and a serious case of jealousy.
We are a result of who we are trained to be.
That's what we exhibit. You may not see it yet, let me explain. Two ladies are fighting over one man. The one has her game locked down. She knows how to cook, respects the man, friends, makes no demand and has a good job.
The other doesn't. She is cantankerous, can't cook, needs money all the time... And instead of doing something to improve herself, work on her person and increase her value, she sees the other girl as a threat and "grabs her flag". If she knows having a flag is an advantage why did she not bring hers.
There are several guys that do this too. You are dating a babe. And remains like you met her. You didn't add any value to her life. Some guy comes along. Makes her see that she can be more. And I am not talking money.
He just activates her potentials. "You can do it" he tells her. "You are beautiful". "You should become a broadcaster". "You cook well, open a restaurant", "Let's go jogging. You will feel better..." And this same lady comes alive. The other guy, now an EX, will say the present guy used money or jazz. Did you hear the other boxer asking why he doesn't have a flag? Reminds me of King Solomon and the baby dispute in the bible.
The people who don't have would rather that you never enjoy your own, instead of them to work harder to get theirs. Also recall, the parable of the 10 maidens? 5 brought extra oil. The others did not. It's like grabbing their extra oil. The Boys Scout motto says be prepared! Bring your A-game or be out gamed.
In life, some people will blame others for their own failings. When they are responsible for the way things are. It's like forgetting to bring your cv for an interview and ripping another candidate's cv. As as how? Take blames for your failings. QED
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