In her recent vlog series tittled "Dressed to impress", TOke Makinwa is finally addressing her marriage breakdown in a way she has never done in the past. She was direct and did not speak like she was talking about someone else.
She revealed that the reason she took long to address the issue is that she wanted to talk about it from a rational side and not with her emotions. Read all she said after the page break.
For those who feel I have not spoken about my marriage, you know what happened last year. It is with good reason. I remember I told you guys I would talk about it but I wanted to talk about it from a rational point and not an emotional stance. Cause it’s tough you know.
If you’ve ever been through a separation, heartbreak or whatever, you know how difficult it is.
This was very public and so I went through a lot of stages and I am still going through it. I can’t sit here and tell you hey I’m completely whole or this doesn’t affect me anymore. I still feel somewhat shy, I’m trying to come out of my shell about it. Because I mean you share your life with me and I feel it’s a great disservice to not even talk about it.
So in due time. Just know I’m going through the process & every week I come here I smile, we connect that doesn’t mean I don’t have my own issues. It’s just that I have chosen not to be a victim. I’ve chosen to just rise above it and just keep rising.
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